For your inquisitions and statements, drop a letter at her mailbox. Warning: Not all questions might be entertained. But, you may consider dropping your anonymous letters in her letter drop. We can talk there as long as we can. Share, if you like. Just please make sure it's a recherché upshot.
To creep up on her is a risk. To commend her is a choice. To ignore her is tolerable. To hate her is toothsome.